I want to market my website - www.resumeonline.com - but i want a FILTERED list - in otherwords - i don't want to SPAM - i only want to market to people who okay marketing to them. Maybe is there a company out there that doe sthis?

You can also try the Direct Marketing Association's Vendor Search on thier website. http://www.thedirectmarketingsearch.com/ You'll find plenty of list brokers and maybe an email service provider if you don't already have one.